Strangers at Home: Photobook explores the ‘ordinary and extraordinary’ lives of Hong Kong’s domestic helpers

Lintang (left) and Widy (right) transport their mobile library for domestic workers 

For Rob Godden, fighting for the rights of migrant domestic workers in Hong Kong is nothing new. After campaigning for the cause for three years while working with Amnesty International Hong Kong, he resigned from his job and was introduced to So Mei Chi, an independent journalist who was planning a book exploring the same issue.

Indonesian domestic workers study at a mathematics class in Sheung Wan on their day off. The class is run by Bintang Nusantara International that provides a variety of classes for migrant domestic workers in Hong Kong.
Indonesian domestic workers study mathematics in Sheung Wan on their day off. The class is run by Bintang Nusantara International, which provides a variety of classes for migrant domestic workers in Hong Kong.

With Godden taking the photos, the interviews for the book mostly took place in Hong Kong, although the pair also spent a week in Tarlac City in the Philippines where they met the families of domestic helpers, as well as women who had worked in Hong Kong and subsequently returned home.

There they found that the economic necessity for these women to seek work abroad not only affects the domestic workers themselves, but also the family and friends they leave behind.

Okah, a domestic worker from Indonesia collects Fang Wai, the son of her employer from school.
Okah, a domestic worker from Indonesia, collects Fang Wai, the son of her employer from school.
Amid the obvious hardships faced, Godden tells Coconuts HK that he was inspired by the strength and commitment of many of the women he met.
Bhing reaches out to her daughter Dominique at Hong Kong Disneyland during a rare visit by Dominique to see her mother. Most helpers can only see their children every two years at the end of their contract.
Bhing reaches out to her daughter Dominique at Hong Kong Disneyland during a rare visit. Most helpers can only see their children every two years at the end of their contract.

For example, Lintang, who, along with her friends, has established a mobile library for Indonesian workers in Victoria Park, which she runs on her only day off – Sunday. In addition to this, she is also a published author and attends classes at a college that runs courses for domestic workers in Sheung Wan.

On the flip side, Godden encountered many cases that brought home the harsh difficulties that domestic workers face.

Erwiana Sulistyaningsih arrives at Wan Chai District Court in December 2014 for the trial of her former employer Law Wan-tung. The shocking abuse Erwiana suffered made news internationally.
Erwiana Sulistyaningsih arrives at Wan Chai District Court in December 2014 for the trial of her former employer Law Wan-tung. The shocking abuse Erwiana suffered made news internationally.

Remy, for example, a trade union organiser for domestic helpers in Hong Kong, faced the triple tragedy of both her parents and husband passing away shortly after she arrived in the city.

Later, her son Jeppoy was diagnosed with gender dysphoria – emotionally and psychologically identifying as female. While Remy came to accept this, Jeppoy’s school teachers blamed his condition on his mother’s absence.

Bernadette from the Progressive Labour Union of Domestic Workers in Hong Kong enjoys a day out at Plover Cove Country Park with other union members.
Bernadette from the Progressive Labour Union of Domestic Workers in Hong Kong enjoys a day out at Plover Cove Country Park with other union members.

“I’m not sure whether Remy believes she is somehow to blame,” Godden told us, “but I think she must have experienced some guilt as a mother for being away from her son for such a long time.”

But the plight of domestic helpers is no new concept for Hongkongers. Every angle – the inspirational role models, the shocking abuse photos, the sob stories – have all been covered, seemingly to little effect.

So what does Godden hope to change with his book?

Yolanda's granddaughter walks to 7-Eleven with her grandfather in Tarlac, Philippines. Yolanda spent many years in Hong Kong looking after her employer's children, whom she still misses very much.
Yolanda’s granddaughter walks to 7-Eleven with her grandfather in Tarlac, Philippines. Yolanda spent many years in Hong Kong looking after her employer’s children, whom she still misses very much.

“It is not about ‘humanising them’,” he says, “for they possess the vibrant, flawed, amazing and ordinary humanity that all of us possess — nor about ‘giving them a voice’ — for they can speak loudly and clearly for themselves.”

“No, the aim of the book is to simply tell ordinary stories that reveal the extraordinary, showing the complexities and contradictions we all recognise from our own lives and feel some connection with. By doing this, we hope to contribute to a more constructive dialogue, whether at the local park, the office water cooler, or the corridors of the Central Government Complex.”

An exhibition of Godden’s photos will be held from Sept. 21 to Oct. 11 at Open Quote in PMQ (35 Aberdeen Street, Central).

More from the exhibition: 

Orlando feeds his granddaughter at his home in Tarlac, Philippines. Orlando's wife went to work as a domestic worker in Hong Kong over 20 years ago and has yet to return. It is hard to establish trust in the relationship. “She always asks where I am. So I started this Sari Sari [small convenience shop] last year, just to show her I am busy at home.”
Orlando feeds his granddaughter at his home in Tarlac, Philippines. Orlando’s wife went to work as a domestic worker in Hong Kong over 20 years ago and is yet to return. It is hard to establish trust in the relationship. “She always asks where I am. So I started this Sari Sari [small convenience shop] last year, just to show her I am busy at home.”
Dennis and his daughter Dennis-Ann eat lunch at the local Jollybee fast food restaurant in Tarlac, Philippines. Since Dennis-Ann's mother Glory Ann went to work as a domestic worker in Hong Kong, Dennis has looked after his daughter.
Dennis and his daughter Dennis-Ann eat lunch at the local Jollybee fast food restaurant in Tarlac, Philippines. Since Dennis-Ann’s mother Glory Ann went towork as a domestic worker in Hong Kong, Dennis has looked after their daughter along.


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